Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.
Episodes
180 episodes
No Contact or Low Contact? Get it Right for Reconciling with Your Spouse
No Contact or Low Contact? Get it Right for Reconciling with Your Spouse When a husband or wife becomes rejecting, distant, or checked out, most people respond by increasing contact, reassurance, and attention. But that...
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Season 4
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Episode 47
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15:04
How to Get Your Spouse to Work on Your Marriage (Without Conflict)
How to Get Your Spouse to Work on Your Marriage (Without Conflict)Your spouse won’t talk about the marriage, won’t go to counseling, and won’t try. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Coach Jack expl...
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Season 4
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Episode 46
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15:33
Why Do We Keep Arguing About the Same Things? Here’s How to Stop
Why Do We Keep Arguing About the Same Things? Here’s How to StopDo you and your spouse keep circling back to the same arguments, no matter how much you talk? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack...
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Season 4
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Episode 45
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17:16
How to Reconnect with a Spouse Who Is Cold and Distant
How to Reconnect with a Spouse Who Is Cold and DistantWhen your spouse becomes cold and distant, endless talking often makes things worse instead of better. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll...
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Season 4
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Episode 44
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15:27
How Do I Know if My Spouse Really Wants a Divorce, or Is Just Angry?
How Do I Know if My Spouse Really Wants a Divorce, or Is Just Angry? If your spouse says he or she wants a divorce, it can be hard to know whether it’s real or just anger talking. In this episode of Reconciling Marr...
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Season 4
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Episode 43
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14:16
Difficult Spouse? Get Improvement without Conflict (Part 2: Action Steps)
Difficult Spouse? Get Improvement without Conflict (Part 2: Action Steps)Many people try to fix their spouse directly—but that only creates more distance and conflict. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
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Season 4
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Episode 42
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11:39
Difficult Spouse? Get Improvement without Conflict (Part 1: Taking Charge)
Difficult Spouse? Get Improvement without Conflict (Part 1: Taking Charge)When your spouse is critical, blaming, or distant, trying to fix them usually makes things worse. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Ja...
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Season 4
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Episode 41
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11:22
How to Confront Your Spouse Without Fighting (Part 2: The Right Steps)
How to Confront Your Spouse Without Fighting (Part 2: The Right Steps) Most couples either avoid confrontation or end up fighting—but neither approach leads to lasting change. In this episode of Reconciling Marriage...
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Season 4
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Episode 40
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10:58
How to Confront Your Spouse Without Fighting (Part 1, Preventing Conflict)
How to Confront Your Spouse Without Fighting (Part 1, Preventing Conflict)Do you need to confront your spouse but fear it will turn into another fight? Conflict damages marriages, but confrontation—done correctly—can actually stre...
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Season 4
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Episode 39
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11:10
How Relationship Coaching Helps You Fix Your Marriage
How Relationship Coaching Helps You Fix Your MarriageAre you stuck searching for answers while your marriage keeps slipping away? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll discover why endless talki...
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Season 4
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Episode 38
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14:37
Fun Marriage Exercise to Stop Fights before They Start
Fun Marriage Exercise to Stop Fights before They StartMost couples try to solve problems by talking, but that often leads to arguments, defensiveness, and even more distance. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach...
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Season 4
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Episode 37
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12:43
How to Deal with a Spouse Who Spends Too Much Money (without Conflict)
How to Deal with a Spouse Who Spends Too Much Money (without Conflict)Money fights can drain love from a marriage faster than almost anything else. When a spouse overspends, the other often reacts with reasoning, complaining, or p...
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Season 4
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Episode 36
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14:03
When Your Spouse Says, "I'm Not in Love with You"--What to Do
When Your Spouse Says, "I'm Not in Love with You"--What to DoHearing your spouse say, “I’m not in love with you” can feel like a gut punch, but it doesn’t have to mean the end of your marriage. In this episode of Reconciling M...
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Season 4
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Episode 35
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20:38
Can Your Marriage Be Saved? What Really Determines Reconciliation
Can Your Marriage Be Saved? What Really Determines ReconciliationIs it too late to save your marriage? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, listeners will discover why a spouse’s current feelings, wor...
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Season 4
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Episode 34
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16:27
How to Resolve Marriage Conflict without Arguments or Distance
How to Resolve Marriage Conflict Without Arguments or DistanceMost couples believe conflict is just part of marriage. But the truth is, conflict slowly weakens love and connection. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with...
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Season 4
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Episode 33
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16:27
Common Questions and Answers about Boundaries in Marriage
Common Questions About Boundaries in MarriageBoundaries are one of the best tools for ending relationship damage—but also one of the easiest to misuse. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll hear...
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Season 4
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Episode 32
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18:21
How to Keep Your Marriage Strong and Avoid Divorce
How to Keep Your Marriage Strong and Avoid Divorce Many couples don't fail because they stopped loving each other—but because they stopped doing the right things. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
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Season 4
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Episode 31
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16:53
Emotional and Financial Conflict in Marriage: How They’re Connected
Emotional and Financial Conflict in Marriage: How They’re Connected Fighting about money is rarely just about money. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, we explore why financial arguments...
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Season 4
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Episode 30
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16:07
How to Stop Criticizing Your Spouse (and What to Do Instead)
How to Stop Criticizing Your Spouse (and What to Do Instead) If you’ve ever found yourself constantly pointing out your spouse’s flaws—hoping it will change them—this episode is for you. In Reconciling Marriages wit...
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Season 4
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Episode 29
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16:56
Husbands' Guide to Effective Marriage Boundaries
Husbands' Guide to Effective Marriage BoundariesMany husbands misuse boundaries—or avoid them entirely—and damage their marriage in the process. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how t...
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Season 4
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Episode 28
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17:43
Common Mistakes That Kill Attraction in Marriage (and How to Rebuild Desire)
Common Mistakes That Kill Attraction in Marriage (and How to Rebuild Desire)Are you worried your spouse just isn’t attracted to you anymore? In this episode, you’ll learn why so many husbands and wives drift into the “friend zone”...
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Season 4
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Episode 27
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13:17
Emotional Intimacy in Marriage: 3 Daily Habits That Work
Emotional Intimacy in Marriage: 3 Daily Habits That WorkIs your marriage starting to feel more like a business partnership than a loving bond? Without emotional intimacy, couples drift into routine and lose the trust and validatio...
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Season 4
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Episode 26
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15:05
Build a Stronger Marriage as a Couple—Without Going to Therapy
Build a Stronger Marriage as a Couple—Without Going to Therapy Many couples think therapy is the only way to improve their marriage—but that’s not always true. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jac...
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Season 4
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Episode 25
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18:06
Are Your Social Skills Hurting Your Marriage? Fix Them Now
Are Your Social Skills Hurting Your Marriage? Fix Them NowMany people are sabotaging their marriages without realizing it—simply by failing to use basic social skills with their spouse. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages...
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Season 4
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Episode 24
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14:58
What Are Healthy Marriage Boundaries and Why Are They Important?
What Are Healthy Marriage Boundaries and Why Are They Important? Many people use the word “boundaries” without really knowing what they are—or how to use them in marriage. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages wi...
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Season 4
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Episode 23
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14:44