Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.
Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
What to Do When Your Wife Says She’s Not in Love With You (Real Steps That Work)
What to Do When Your Wife Says She’s Not in Love With You (Real Steps That Work)
When a wife says she’s not in love anymore, most men panic—and that panic usually pushes her further away. In this episode, Coach Jack explains why those words do not automatically mean your marriage is over, and why chasing, pleading, or trying to convince her almost always backfires. This episode lays out a clear, step-by-step way to respond that helps your wife relax, reconnect, and regain attraction over time.
What You’ll Learn
- How to respond when your wife says she’s not in love—without chasing or arguing
- The most common mistakes men make that destroy any chance of reconnection
- Why acceptance works better than reassurance, persuasion, or pursuit
- The correct order of steps that allow attraction and connection to rebuild
Want to Work With Coach Jack?
If your wife has emotionally checked out and you want to know how to reconnect without making things worse, Coach Jack’s Re-Connections Coaching Package focuses on helping your spouse relax, reconnect, and gradually feel close again—without pressure or convincing. Learn more at CoachJackIto.com.
Key Takeaways
- A wife saying she’s not in love is not an intervention—it’s a reality to accept
- Pursuit does not create attraction; it destroys it
- Reconnection happens in stages, not all at once
- The goal is to rebuild safety, connection, and attraction—not to convince
Additional Resources
Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
For the full transcript and additional resources, visit Coach Jack's blog at: https://coachjackito.com/blog/wife-not-in-love-anymore/