Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
On the Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack podcast, Christian psychologist, author, and relationship coach, Dr. Jack Ito, will help you to build and restore your marriage. By learning just a few relationship skills, you can help your spouse enjoy your relationship more, while getting more love and affection from your spouse. Listen to Coach Jack as he helps you with one more step toward a marriage both you and your spouse will love.
Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack
How to Deal with a Spouse Who Spends Too Much Money (without Conflict)
How to Deal with a Spouse Who Spends Too Much Money (without Conflict)
Money fights can drain love from a marriage faster than almost anything else. When a spouse overspends, the other often reacts with reasoning, complaining, or pleading—yet those approaches only lead to more conflict. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn a step-by-step way to address financial issues without arguments, while protecting your relationship and building trust.
What You’ll Learn
- How to replace conflict with loving behaviors and secure boundaries
- Why disliked spending isn’t always a financial problem—and how to tell the difference
- A simple, three-step approach to creating a workable budget in marriage
- How to recognize and address financial abuse in a relationship
Want to Work With Coach Jack?
If your spouse’s spending is damaging your marriage—or if you feel controlled financially—Coach Jack’s Restore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse coaching package will help you set secure boundaries while preserving love. Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to bring back fairness and connection.
Key Takeaways
- Conflict never creates positive change—love and boundaries do
- If your spouse can afford the expense, the issue may not be money but values
- A fair allowance system gives both partners freedom and autonomy
- Budgets must be cooperative, not authoritarian, to work in marriage
- Financial abuse requires boundaries, not arguments
Additional Resources
- Resources for improving your marriage with boundaries
- Restore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse - coaching package
- Ramsey -financial help website with many tools for managing money
Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
For the full transcript and additional resources, visit Coach Jack's blog at https://coachjackito.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-a-spouse-who-spends-too-much-money/